How do I find a sex therapist?

The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) is a not-for-profit, interdisciplinary professional organization. In addition to sexuality educators, sexuality counselors and sex therapists, AASECT members include physicians, nurses, social workers, psychologists, allied health professionals, clergy members, lawyers, sociologists, marriage and family counselors and therapists, family planning specialists and researchers, as well as students in relevant professional disciplines. These individuals share an interest in promoting understanding of human sexuality and healthy sexual behavior. Sex Therapy Los Angeles
If you are struggling with issues of sexual dysfunction or a desire to reach your sexual potential, contact a sex therapist in your area.  You can find a directory at:  www.aasect.org

Sexual dysfunction in men

Too many men assume they are in serious trouble when they loose their erections during sex play or intercourse or when they ejaculate too rapidly.  This is a very common problem and nothing to be alarmed or ashamed about. Sex Therapy Los Angeles

The first reaction is to assume medicine is the answer because we are trained to look for quick fixes in our culture.  If this is a problem for you, and assuming there is no medical condition causing the problem, consider that your problems are most likely anxiety driven.

That’s right, anxiety!  When you are not present during sex you’re body will let you know.  Worrying that you won’t be able to keep your erection, thinking about other things, not connecting with your partner, and/or being absent from the sensations in your body can all lead to erectile dysfunction.

If you would like to read more about this problem, take a look at “Resurrecting Sex” by David Schnarch, Ph.d.  http://www.amazon.com/Resurrecting-Sex_problems_revolutionizing-Relationship/dp/0060931787/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=URF8&S=books&qid=1203789368&sr=1-1

You can also check out this website http://members.aol.com/how2video/welcome.htm or find a sex therapist www.aasect.org who can help you.

Sexual Surrogacy

If you struggle with sexual dysfunction or have aversive reactions to sex and have wondered if there are people out there who can help, you may want to consider working with a sexual surrogate. Sex Therapy Los Angeles

According to Tara Livingston, sexual surrogate and sex educator, “By definition a sexual surrogate, or surrogate partner, is a professional who helps clients overcome sexual dysfunction. Most surrogates are women, a few are men and there are also married couples that practice surrogacy together. The general term of sexual surrogacy can involve varying levels of practice. Some surrogates work at counseling centers while others have their own office. Some surrogates offer additional services besides surrogacy such as telephone counseling or sexological bodywork.”

To read the rest of this article and for more information on this topic, visit Tara’s website at :http://www.sexsurrogateofla.com/what

Female Sexual Dysfunction Alert

“The pharmaceutical industry wants women to think that sexual problems are simple and offers drugs as magic fixes. But positive sexual experiences require accurate, unbiased information.

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FSD-Alert.org introduces an educational campaign that challenges the myths promoted by the pharmaceutical industry and calls for research on the many causes of women’s sexual problems.”

To read the rest of this article, go to http://www.fsd-alert.org/

Women and sexual pain

Did you know that many women suffer from painful intercourse, low sexual desire and other sexual dysfunctions? Sex Therapy Los Angeles

A survey reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association in 1999 suggested that more than 40% of women suffer from female sexual dysfunction. More than a fifth (22%) of those in the survey complained of low sexual desire, 14% experienced problems with sexual arousal (lack of vaginal lubrication) and 7% had pain during intercourse.

For more information on this topic go to http://www.channel4.com/health/microsites/0-9/4health/sex/shi_nottonite.html