When sex is hot and heavy with your partner, there’s nothing to talk about. Over time your sexual attraction, libido, desires, and interests change. If you don’t talk about it sooner rather than later, you could find yourself in martial gridlock.
Check out this article and start talking about sex daily - you won’t be sorry!
http://ow.ly/101Du
. Jan 25, 2010
Filed under: uncategorized, couples therapy, female sexual desire, female sexuality, partner, Sex, sex and women, sex therapy, sexual potential, thecenterforhealthysex, women's sexuality
30% of young and middle-aged women go through a period of little to no sexual desire. While some women say that they’re O.K. with not having sex again, often times that’s not true.
Lori Brotto is one of the world’s leading experts on hypoactive sexual desire disorder in women. Through her research and experience, she now instructs women on how to be mindful of the sensations in their bodies, leading them to experience themselves as highly sexual, erotic beings. In her thinking, desire takes time…
If you are female and struggle with low sexual desire, we can help! 310-335-0997
To read the article, go to:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/29/magazine/29sex-t.html?_r=1&emc=eta1
. Jan 15, 2010
Filed under: healthy eroticism, sex and daily living, female sexual desire, female sexuality, healthy eroticism, sex and women, sex therapy, women's sexuality
If your tired of keeping your disturbing sexual issues to yourself, or need an inexpensive way to get your sex therapy questions answered you can call a hot-line. That’s right! Contact this sex therapy hot-line where licensed professionals will help you with your issues.
http://yourdarksecrets.com/
Let us know how it goes by clicking the comment button below and giving us a report.
. Oct 23, 2009
Filed under: sex and daily living, uncategorized, couples therapy, female sexual desire, female sexuality, healthy eroticism, obsession, pornography, sex therapy, sexual assault, sexual potential, women's sexuality

In the 10th and 11th centuries in in India, sex was was thought to be a path to spirituality.
Today, sex has been denigrated to a fast-food item, to be consumed strictly for the high it brings without the heart and soul of exploration into the divine.
In their article “The Spirituality of Sex,” Jurriaan Kamp and Tijn Touber take you through the stages of change sex has undergone over the ages. They bring us full circle back to sex as a meaning-making meeting of two souls for the purposes of personal growth and development.
To read their article, go to:http://www.care2.com/greenliving/the-spirituality-of-sex.html
Let us know how you think of sex by clicking the comments button below
. Sep 25, 2009
Filed under: sex and daily living, uncategorized, female sexual desire, female sexuality, healthy eroticism, Sex, sex and women, sexual desire, women's sexuality
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Open to women who want to claim the “goddess within” often lost to betrayal, trauma, love addiction or self neglect. This retreat will be an opportunity to play, nurture and continue a self healing process of body, mind and spirit. In addition to group process, women will have an opportunity to:
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. Aug 28, 2009
Filed under: speaking engagements/upcoming events, female sex addiction, female sexuality, love addiction

The updated and new edition of the book that changed the way we think about romance, love and intimacy is now available!
In the expanded 3rd edition of her best selling classic Is It Love or Is It Addiction?, psychologist Dr. Brenda Schaeffer offers readers an expert prognosis of love addiction, what it is, what it is not, how to identify it, and most important, how to get you out of it and into healthy love. It includes:
- two new chapters - Romance Addiction and Sexual Addiction;
- up to date information on the biological and psychological basis of addictive behaviors;
- the role technology plays;
- the role of trauma;
- new stories; and
- an updated self help section.
If you are ready to move towards a healthier love life and join the thousands whose lives have already been changed by this book, click here: www.itsallaboutlove.com
The book is also available through hazelden.org, amazon.com and at bookstores.
. Jul 17, 2009
Filed under: love addiction, uncategorized, female sex addiction, female sexuality, love addiction, sex addiction, sex addiction therapist, sex and women, treatment for love addiction, women's sexuality
Anthropologist Helen Fisher talks about why we love on this video at Ted.com. She states that romantic love is a basic mating drive and can be an addiction as well.
Love addiction is comprised of focus, obsession, craving, distorting reality, and taking risks. It also shares the same features of chemical addiction such as tolerance, withdrawl, and relapse.
To watch the video, go to
http//www.ted.com/index.php/talks/helen_fisher_studies_the_brain_in_love.html
Dr. Fisher states, “love is in us, it’s deeply embeded in the brain.”
. Jul 10, 2009
Filed under: love addiction, uncategorized, female sexual desire, female sexuality, love addiction, obsession, sex and women, treatment for love addiction, women's sexuality
If you are female and are worried about your sexual behaviors, take a look at this video produced by faithave.com. Marnie Feree, a long-time expert on female sex addiction, talks about the facts of female sex addiction.
This is a faith-based message which I neither endorse or condem. As they say in the 12-step tradition, “take what you like and leave the rest.” To view the video go to:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTJkfUibkIY&feature=PlayList&p=5D83675D836231D3&index=0
. Jun 05, 2009
Filed under: Female sexual addiction, female sex addiction, female sexuality, love addiction, sex addiction, sex addiction help, sex addiction therapy, sex and women, sexual addiction, women's sexuality
Is there such a thing as sexual fluidity or is our sexuality static? This author offers both research and explanation as to why/how it’s possible that our sexuality fluctuates over time and according to who were with and where we are in our lives.
“I Kissed a Girl” Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women’s Love and Desire by Lisa M. Diamond Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 2008, is available in hardcover should you want to read the book.
Below you will find an excerpt of her book reviewed by Ellyn Ruthstrom:
In a culture most comfortable analyzing important issues using binary concepts—Democrat/Republican, pro/con, right/wrong—the straight/gay binary of sexual orientation is particularly well-defended. Admitting to any element of ambiguity or changeability in this most intimate part of our identities strikes fear into the hearts of many. Certainly the biphobia—prejudice against bisexuals—that is exhibited by both the straight and gay communities is a manifestation of that fear. If we understood ambiguity better, would we be able to accept that a fluid sexual orientation is as valid as any other? Would there be less distrust and apprehension of those whose sexuality doesn’t fit into a heads-or-tails reality?
To read the rest of the article, go to http://www.wcwonline.org/content/view/1945/
Or to read another article on why women leave men, go to http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/23/o.women.leave.menfor.women/index.html
Click on the comments button below and let us know your thoughts.
. May 08, 2009
Filed under: sex and daily living, female sexuality, sex and women, women's sexuality
Finally, a book geared to adults enjoying and celebrating their sexuality!
The newest sex education manual, Older Wiser, Sexually Smarter: 30 Sex Ed Lessons for Adults Only is the first sex ed manual exclusively for adults! This book is getting rave reviews and I think you will rave too. To find out more and to order your copy, visit http://ppgnnj.org/jforms/flyerOWSS.pdf
Enjoy and let us know what you think by clicking the comments button below.
. May 01, 2009
Filed under: sex and daily living, sexual desire & potential, female sexuality, healthy eroticism, sex therapy, sexual desire, women's sexuality