Patrick Carnes comments on sex addiction on CBS

See last weeks early show on CBS on Sex Addiction.

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2010/01/24/sunday/main6136039.shtml

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Center for Healthy Sex Intensive Out-Patient Treatment Program

CHS will kick off the new year with our new Intensive Out-Patient Treatment Program for sexual addiction.  If you or a loved one struggle with sex addiction let us help you start the new year right!  Join us from January 11 through January 22, 2010.

This eleven-day program provides a comprehensive look at your sexual history, sexual acting out behaviors, secrets, lies, and family of origin trauma.  Through the use of  many forms of therapy such as cognitive behavioral therapy, art therapy, and EMDR our highly trained staff will create a program that is tailored to meet your individual needs.  You will be involved in group therapy, individual therapy, couples therapy, and twelve-step meetings as part of your change process.

Don’t delay getting the help you need one more day.  Call 310-335-0997 www.thecenterforhealthysex.com

Let us help you restore your sexual health!

New Sex Addiction Recovery Book: Hope & Freedom for Sexual Addicts and Their Partners

This exciting new book comes from Milton Magness, Ph.D.  If you are new to sexual addiction recovery take a moment to go to the website below and check it out!
Hope & Freedom for Sexual Addicts and Their Partners
Includes information about:
  • Recovery Components
  • Disclosure
  • Polygraph Exams as an Aid to Recovery
  • Celibacy Contracts
  • The Partner’s Recovery Journey
  • Slip and Relapse Recovery
  • A Blueprint for Rebuilding Broken Trust
  • When Is It Time to Move On?
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Women’s retreat with Brenda Schaeffer

Women’s Fall Retreat 

 

 

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DATES: September 11 - 13, 2009
LOCATION:  Private lake retreat near Spooner, WI

 

 

Open to women who want to claim the “goddess within” often lost to betrayal, trauma, love addiction or self neglect. This retreat will be an opportunity to play, nurture and continue a self healing process of body, mind and spirit.  In addition to group process, women will have an opportunity to:
 
  • rest and relax in nature
  • take in a massage 
  • spend time in the sauna or Jacuzzi
  • share a gourmet meal
  • meditate
  • heal the past and move forward
  • claim lost innocence
 
To register and more information:

please visit our website ,
call 952-944-4046.
 

 

 

Healthy Relationships
15798 Venture Lane
Eden Prairie, Minnesota 55344
952.944.4046

 

 

“Is It Love Or Is It Addiction?” by Brenda Schaeffer, Ph.D.

 

The updated and new edition of the book that changed the way we think about romance, love and intimacy is now available!

 

In the expanded 3rd edition of her best selling classic Is It Love or Is It Addiction?, psychologist Dr. Brenda Schaeffer offers readers an expert prognosis of love addiction, what it is, what it is not, how to identify it, and most important, how to get you out of it and into healthy love. It includes:

 

  • two new chapters -  Romance Addiction and Sexual Addiction;
  • up to date information on the biological and psychological basis of addictive behaviors;
  • the role technology plays;
  • the role of trauma;
  • new stories; and
  • an updated self help section.

 

If you are ready to move towards a healthier love life and join the thousands whose lives have already been changed by this book, click here:   www.itsallaboutlove.com

 

The book is also available through hazelden.org, amazon.com and at bookstores.

The Porn Industry Kills…

Whether or not pornography is good for a culture or not is a complicated topic. On the one hand the right to print and view porn is a free speech issue, and on the other hand it can be a human rights issue.  Many young men and women die every year due to overdose, suicide, homicide, and accidents due to the torment they are going through working in porn films.   

Although I don’t have an answer about what is “right” and what is “wrong” where the availability of porn is concerned, former porn actress, Shelley Luben does.  She has created a crusade to help people get out of the porn industry.  Her site does anything but glamorize an industry that chews people up and spits them out. 

Watching porn is not a victimless crime.

Eleven porn porn stars died from HIV, suicide, homicide and drugs in 2007.
Between 2003 and 2005, 976 performers were reported with 1,153 positive STD results.
66% of porn performers have Herpes, a non-curable disease.

To read more about porn industry stats and current legislation in the state of California, go to http://www.shelleylubben.com/index.php?truth=home

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Women Struggle with Sex Addiction Too

If you are female and are worried about your sexual behaviors, take a look at this video produced by faithave.com.  Marnie Feree, a long-time expert on female sex addiction, talks about the facts of female sex addiction.

This is a faith-based message which I neither endorse or condem.  As they say in the 12-step tradition, “take what you like and leave the rest.”  To view the video go to:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTJkfUibkIY&feature=PlayList&p=5D83675D836231D3&index=0

Women Turn To Sex Industry Due to Economic Downturn

I feared it was a matter of time before we began to see young women, and men, turning to the sex industry to make ends meet. This article on the msnbc website tells us just that. With the loss of jobs and financial struggles many are having, young women are turning to stripping.

Often young women think they can handle the work and tell themselves that it’s just a “temporary” solution until they get back on their feet financially. Unfortunately, the money can be seductive and instead of saving the money and getting out, they start to create a lifestyle with it.

This, sadly, becomes a trap that can have women turning to prostitution before they know it. If you or someone you know is thinking about selling their sexuality, now is the time to assist them in getting help before the trap-door closes.

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2nd Women’s Summit at Life Healing Center, Santa Fe, New Mexico

On March 19, 2009 Life Healing Center of Santa Fe brought together a tour de force of women to take on the task of helping female sex and love addicts!

I am writing to you from Santa Fe, New Mexico where I just spent the past 2 1/2 days with approximately 12 women from around the country who specialize in treating female sex and love addiction.  It has been an exhilerating weekend of creative ideas coming together to form a standard of care for women who struggle with these painful and challenging problems.

By the end of the weekend tangible tasks and important goals were put into motion, one of which is a book that will assist mental health professionals in providing the best care for female sex and love addicts. 

Stay tuned for more details of what was accomplished as these tasks, surveys, articles, and books come to fruition. 

If you are a woman who struggles with these issues and are interested in participating in an anonymous, on-line survey for the purposes of collecting research information, please contact me at info@centerforhealthysex.com.