Moderation is a difficult aspiration in our culture of excess. We hear stories daily of people loosing their families, jobs, homes, relationships, etc. due to excesses they have engaged in. Likewise, contentment is highly underrated and "getting ahead" is held up as the American dream, even though American’s are more stressed then ever. The article below talks about the pitfalls of too much of a good thing, namely the Internet. It says:
"The Internet is a wonderful tool for communication. However, it can become an escape from reality that has the appearance of safety, intimacy and anonymity. Use of the Internet for games, gambling, messages, porn or cybersex can become as addictive as any other drug."
To read the rest of this article, go to http://www.helpguide.org/mental/internet_cybersex_addiction.htm
. Feb 22, 2008
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.com: Cybersex Addiction is the story of real people whose virtual worlds become more compelling, more “real” than the outside world. Two Canadian professionals—a computer tech-support worker and a lawyer so affected that he entered a treatment program—share their stories of battling what psychologists refer to as one of the most rapidly growing addictions.
To see the full article and video, go to the o.com site:
http://www.movingimages.ca/Catalogue/Individual/ocom.html
. Sep 21, 2007
Filed under: cybersex addiction, cybersex addiction, sex addiction
Cybersex is one of the fastest growing addictions in the US today. It can capture anyone at anytime. Here is a brief video clip that exemplifies how anyone can be snagged by the net.
Notice how the man in the clip talks about having a video monitor in his office that faces away from the door.
If you think you have a problem with cybersex, one easy thing you can do to assist yourself in stopping is to turn your video monitor so that it faces your office door. If your monitor is at home put it in a common space that your entire family uses so that you are visable when on the computer.
You can also download or buy content monitors that are easy to install. Have a friend install it so you don’t have access to the password. These small tips can be the beginning of your recovery from cybersex addiction.
To view the video clip go to and let us know what you think:
http://www.ipextv.tv/ipextv/search-listing-detail.do?fct=ctg&ctg=101&ctgs=348
. Sep 07, 2007
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On June 28 - 30, 2007 in Minneapolis, Minnesota David Delmonico, Ph.D. and Elizabeth Griffin, MA, LMFT Authors, Clinicians, Researchers, and Trainers in Cybersex Related Issues will present an intensive dedicated solely to cybersex issues:
This intensive will provide clients with the information and tools necessary
to address problematic cybersex behavior. Through lecture, demonstration, and an intensive group setting, clients will create an Individualized Internet Health Plan to promote successful recovery. Topics incorporated throughout the three
days include:
* Comprehensive individualized assessment of your Internet behavior
* First and second levels of change and relapse prevention
* The role of intimacy formation and its relationship to the Internet
* Creative and engaging methods to address cybersex issues
* The power of the Internet and techniques for breaking the cycle
For more information, please visit: http://www.internetbehavior.com/intnsive
Internet Behavior Consulting is excited to begin offering cybersex
intensive. Please let us know if you have any questions.
David and Elizabeth
info@internetbehavior.com
952-210-5778
. May 11, 2007
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It turns out that the internet itself is rapidly becoming an addiction for people. If you think you’re spending too much time on-line and it’s taking away from the rest of your life, you might want to take a look at why.
Go to this site and they will help you answer your questions whether your compulsion is looking at cybersex, on-line gambling, ebay or surfing.
http://www.netaddiction.com/
. Jan 19, 2007
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Marlene Maheu, Ph.D. has written a book called "Infidelity on the Internet." You can go to this self-help site if you are struggling with this problem.
http://www.realmentalhealth.com/addicitons/internet_04.asp
. Dec 01, 2006
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Cybersex addiciton is effecting people of all ages and ethnicities around the world. Young Filipinos of today are hooked on the Internet, and especially on cybersex. Although there are no disturbing statistical studies done to scrutinize online sexual activities, it is very apparent that pornography and prostitution are prevailing in the Philippines.
For more information on this topic visit: http://www.filipinowriter.com/node/824
. Sep 08, 2006
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Dr. Al Cooper was quoted in this article in 2000 long before cybersex addiction was getting the attention it is today. Some things still hold true and this article is one of those things. Take a moment to read this and let us know what you think by clicking the comment button below.
http://legalminds.lp.findlaw.com/list/cyberia-lmsg24981.html
. May 05, 2006
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This site offers a quick plan for breaking pornography addiction. Since there are many ways to get "sexually sober" from compulsive behaviors, this may be a way for you. Make sure you also take a look at all the available 12-step programs listed on this site.
Go to: http://www.no-porn.com If you choose to use this system, PLEASE let our readers know how it works for you by clicking the comment button below. Thanks and good luck with your recovery!
. Mar 17, 2006
Filed under: cybersex addiction, cybersex addiction, sex addiction